It was on a Monday, I was catching up with my emails accumulated over weekend. My manager came to me, “Do you have 5 minutes…?” I looked at him and said “Yeah!” I locked my system and followed him to a meeting room near my desk. He was holding the door for me; I entered the room and thanked him for that nice gesture. We sat facing each other. I was impatient; so many thoughts were going through my mind. I could not figure out the reason for this meeting as work wise everything was good till last Friday and even we received an appreciation email from the customer for the last release, we did. He started with a preface of how well we did in last release, how well myself and team performed and then about the next release which is about to start next week. I was nodding my head however my mind was getting restless to know the real agenda of the meeting. After that long preface he asked me, “Can you travel to client place in next 2-3 weeks for the requirement phase of next release?” Most unexpected however most awaited question in front of me, perplexed eyes and tight lips gave way to large eyes, highly arched eyebrows, and a big smiling mouth. I beamed, “Sure, why not”. Next question, “You have a valid passport, right?” I had to think, “I have a passport, but is it valid?, was it for 5 years or 10 years?”. Too many questions popped up but I gathered my thoughts and responded, “Yeah, I do”. “Okay, raise a travel plan in the internal portal and proceed with visa application and let me know your appointment date”. He paused and looked at me. That look means, do you have any other questions. I said “OK, I will do”. He stood up, held the door for me. I was super excited, I was not sure whether I thanked him this time; I was literally running out to call my mom and tell her the exciting news.
When I told her the news, she was happy, she probed, “Good, when you have to travel..?” I didn’t notice the anxiety in that voice, I was in another world, “I will have to apply for visa, for that I need to go to Chennai for the visa interview, then only USA”. The question again repeated, “When are you travelling…?” I was rude, “I don’t know, Mom… as I told I will also get to know only later…”. “OK…” that was the answer from the other end of phone; That OK was a stretched one… I got the message… again I explained… “Mom, it is not that I can travel now… I need to get an appointment for visa interview… pass the interview… get my visa stamped in my passport… then get some process done in office to get my accommodation and air ticket booked…. Then only I can travel…”. Mom agreed, “OK, I understood… when do you think you will travel?”. I now sensed the motherly anxiety in the voice now, I answered, “May be in 2 -3 weeks, but not sure. Don’t tell this to anyone, till everything is confirmed…”. Her voice was low.. the answer was a “Hmmm…”, but from the voice inflection, I understood, it was an OK. It reminded me of the situation when I selected Palakkad NSS Engineering college for my Bachelors and called her from the phone booth outside the Engineering Counselling centre (Where Colleges are allocated based on your Engineering Entrance exam ranking). I told her, “It is just for 3 months”. Again answer was devoid of any words but a “Hmm…”. “Mom…” I called. She said, “Ok, then… finish your work. We will talk in the evening”. She disconnected the call… I wanted to call her… but suddenly my friend patted me from back “Congrats, dude!”. I turned back and thanked him. “I heard you mentioning about your travel to your mom…” He explained… I smiled and walked back to my work station hiding my teary eyes.
As soon as I finished raising the travel request and went to my manager and said “I have raised the travel request, you have to approve”. He smiled at me and said, “I will”. I thanked him and walked back. I called my Mom again. “We have to go to our ancestral temple, do a ritual which is pending for long time”. I agreed, “We will do, after the visa interview”. She was excited, she presented a list of temples, we have to visit and offer prayers. She also wanted me to go and get blessings from my grandparents. I agreed. She raised her stock question, “Did you had your food?” I believe most parents in India will ask this question regardless of the time they call you or you call them… 🙂 I answered, “No, will go in half an hour”. I reciprocated the question every Indian child will do, “Did you?”. “No, Oh! Good you reminded… Something burning… will call you later…” She disconnected the call. After putting the travel request, I have been refreshing my inbox, to see if my manager has approved my request or not… “Early lunch?”, it was my manager. I said, “Sure”. On the way to cafeteria, I reminded him, “You have not approved the travel request, I need to get the appointment at the earliest, if you want me to travel in 2-3 weeks”. He was apologetic “Sorry man, I was busy with too many other things; I will approve the same as soon as I am back after lunch.” During lunch, I told him about my plan to visit my native before the travel, which he verbally approved. He kept his word, within 2 minutes, after we are back from lunch; I got the approval for my travel request. I called the travel desk, as they have to provide me credentials to fill in online visa application. The executive, who picked up the call said, “Sir, your travel request was approved 5 minutes ago. We need a day’s time to process the request. We will get back to you”. I felt the processes are taking too much time. However consoled my mind saying “Chill… dude… Chill…. It’s just one day…”
Next day morning, after reaching office, first thing, I did was calling the travel desk executive. There was no one picking up the call. I kept on calling… finally by 10 AM, one executive picked up the call… I was furious… “Why are you not picking up the call…? I have been calling from 9 AM…”, the person at the other end also got annoyed with the rude question “Sir… our working hours is from 10 AM to 5 PM. If you are calling during the non-office hours, no one will pick up the call…”. I had to digest the sarcasm… “Sorry… I called you to check the status of ticket# 124322”. “One minute, please hold…”. There was some music for some time. “Sir, it will be done only by tomorrow end of day”. I questioned, “Why are you taking this much time”. The voice from the other end of the phone was calm and stern, “Sir, we have 100’s of travel request come in a day, we prioritize and work on the same. We understand, your’s is a priority travel and we are working on it. We need to pay your visa application fees in a bank approved by US consulate and may take to maximum of 48 hours get the details for you to be allowed to do your application online”. Dejected I disconnected the phone. Till then, for me, each and every minutes were like hours … I kept refreshing my inbox for the travel desk email. Finally next day, when we came back from lunch, there was a email, waiting for me in my inbox, with the detailed step to fill in the application form. I offered my prayers to god and started reading the steps to fill the application. My manager walked to me, “Hey Ramu, there is some issue in the performance environment, can you please help Sanju in trouble shooting?”. I looked at him and asked “Now…?”. His eyes asked a question to me, “then when…?” but he said, “Yes”. I felt like, left high and dry. Since it was the cooling period before the next release, I was thinking, I can finish my visa application filling before I leave office today. I went to Sanju’s desk. “What’s is issue, dude!”. He, with his serious face, turned to me, raised his eye brows “No idea…” Well… we both spend around 3 hours and figured out that one of the configuration files have development server properties while he was trying to test in test environment. I felt mad at him, however smiled at him and said… “Here you go… dude…n’joy…”. He never lifted his eyes from the system but thanked me, doing correction of the configuration files. I rushed back to my seat to start my application filing … I logged in to the USA consulate website with the credentials provided by the travel desk, started filling my application to realize, I need lots of information from my passport to fill in the application. I called my mom to get my passport from the cupboard in the bedroom and call me back. I managed to complete the application by around 7:45 PM with my Mom’s help. I reviewed once, twice… I really don’t know how many times, but by the time I left office, after submitting the application it was 10 PM and managed to get an appointment with US Consulate, next Tuesday.
Next day onwards, I was ready to go for my visa interview. I have taken out all my certificates, arranged them in proper order. What more, I was ready with the shirt and trousers for the interview. I started counting days, sorry it was counting hours, minutes and seconds. Over the week, I got my tickets to Chennai as well as my hotel booking from the travel desk. The immigration desk at my office asked me to report to them on Friday. When I went there, all were busy with work. I went to a lady, who is little elder in her looks. “Maam…” she lifted her face, and looked over her tiny wire rimmed glasses “Yes”. I was like a small kid in front of headmistress of the schook. “Myself Ramu, I am supposed to go for a visa interview on Tuesday. I was asked to come and meet one Mrs. Sandy. May I know where does she sit?” She smiled and said “I am Sandy, please sit down”. Suddenly her desk phone rang. “Excuse me” she said and picked the phone. Someone was talking about some special approval for some immediate travel and she was speaking over the phone as if she whispering in someone’s ears. I can hear the guy at the other end speaking but not this lady. “Bye”. Finally I heard her saying something while she was in the call :). She moved her chair forward and smiled at me and said “Sorry”. I wanted to tell her.. “Make it fast, Madam, what is this suspense?” but said “no problem”. She said, “I called you to explain you the process that is there in the US consulate and how it usually happens”. I have already read all these process which is captured in the internal portal” but sat there like a studious student. She kept explaining the processes and steps and with vaious counters at consulate and what I am supposed to do at each counter… I was listening to her and she reminded me about my school time teacher, who used to teach me when I was in 3rdstandard. They both shared more or less same features. Moderately fat middle aged Indian women clad in sari with an angular face with a strong jaw line, broad forehead featuring a red bindi, square chin and big eyes. She had a eye glasses with a tiny frame and most of the time looked over the same. “Are you clear..?” I was looking at her as if that question was not to me… She again asked “Are you clear with the processes?” I nodded my head. She said, “Don’t do this there.. they don’t understand that you just now said yes”. Please use words to convey your answers. I said “Ok…” She took out a green folder and showed me the contents and told me what needs to be done with each of it at the consulate office. I repeated my understanding and she extended her hand and said “best of luck”. I accepted he hand shake and said “thank you”.
I left office early on that Monday because I need to catch my train to Chennai for my visa interview next day. From home, after tearful good luck bidding, I started to Chennai. I reached the historical city of Chennai in first half of the night life. I got out of Chennai Central railway station, the hot humid air from the sea was blowing across, I felt very stuffy, I wanted to be in the hotel room. Just like pigeons fed with grains, from no where, the taxi and auto rickshaw drivers of Chennai mobbed me. I made no eye contact, straight up no’s and walking away fast. I finally got out of the station compound and most of them backed off looking for other passengers. There was a middle aged man, who was like a walking skeleton, still persistent. He was walking behind me pulling his auto rickshaw. I can speak Tamil (Local language of TamilNadu) because one of my close friends mom speaks to me only in Tamil. Initially I used to respond my native language, which she understands, but as my friendship strengthened and as I started spending more time at his home, I slowly started picking up Tamil and started conversing with her in Tamil. I asked him in Tamil “I want to go to hotel Palm grove, will you go by meter”. He responded, “What sir, at this time… meter won’t work for me. Give me 100 rupees; I will drop you at the hotel”. I asked him “how far is the hotel”. He said “10 km”. “Go by meter, I will give you double the meter charge”, I bargained. “Sir, you too… give me 20 rupees more…”. I agreed, I was not thinking off anything but to escape the hot and humid atmosphere and take some rest and go for visa interview next day. I got into the auto rickshaw… that’s all… then it was a roller-coaster ride… I am not sure whether he was seeing the pot holes, speed breakers, vehicles coming head on, red signal etc… I felt, I have taken the biggest risk of the life to enter his auto rickshaw… after one or two signal jumps, I told him.. “boss, I will give you 100 rupees, please don’t jump signals… ”. “Don’t worry sir, nothing will happen. I am there.. naa….” He smiled and mouthed a famous Tamil song in which Famous Tamil Super Star Rajanikant acted as an auto rickshaw driver himself but he didn’t jump any signals till we reached Hotel Palm Grove. I handed over a hundred rupee note to him and jumped out of his auto rickshaw and ran to the reception of the hotel, happy to be alive.
I checked in to the room. Kept alarm at 6 AM in the morning, the visa interview is at 9 AM. I requested the reception also to wake me up by 6 AM and tried to sleep. Beyond the tiredness of the long journey, I couldn’t sleep…the heard unplesent stories of visa rejections keep coming in when ever i close my eyes… I tossed myself over for hours before I retired to slumber because of overpowering tiredness. I was shaken to senses by the ringing phone bell… looks like I missed my alarm. I picked up the call, a sweet voice from other end. “Good Morning, Sir… It is 7:00 AM in the morning. We have been trying from 6 AM”. I said, Thanks and sorry at the same time and jumped into shower and was ready for by visa interview by 7:45 AM. The travel desk person has told me that the US consulate is nearby this hotel and it is minimum charges for auto rickshaw and will be maximum of 15 minutes’ drive from hotel. After last night’s auto rickshaw ride, I was pretty much reluctant to take an auto rickshaw and thought of walking to the consulate for a moment. But the thought of Chennai’s hot and humid atmosphere made me park that green idea of myself very fast. I had my complimentary breakfast and took an auto rickshaw to US consulate.
From outside, the Chennai US consulate looked like a prison/correction center. It was guarded by tall white walls and armed service personals. There was only one entrance (Probably there are some emergency exits), which was guarded by around 4-5 security personals. I reached there by 8:40 AM… there was a queue along the side of tall walls guarding the building. There was no shade; the morning sun has just shifted to the next gear. Humidity of Chennai and Sun is a deadly combination; I was sweating and feeling sticky. I joined the line. The guards were checking passport and the interview appointment letter of the applicants and filtering out the accomplices of visa aspirants. One guy was arguing with the guards, “My daughter is first time going for a visa interview, I also want to go with her, and she may not know everything. I can help her”. One of the guards smiled and responded, “She will go to US also alone, let this be an experience for her.” He requested that dad to leave and come after 30 minutes. That guy was there, requesting the guard till I went in. As I entered the main entrance equipped with a metal detector. One guard asked, “do you have any sealed envelopes?”. I answered no. As if he is not convinced, he checked my folder… I asked myself,” if he had to check, then why did he ask?”. Asked to move to next post where I asked whether I am carrying any cigarette lighter, matchbox, mobile phone. I denied and was frisked to see if I am carrying anything suspicious. Then I was asked to join the queue in front of counter 2. There were multiple queues. I knew, it is the verification counter, since I was already briefed by Sandy. The queue moved in snail pace. I haven’t seen any American till now… the guards, attenders, verification offices and of course the visa applicants are Indians.
Next was my turn… suddenly an emergency alarm went off… followed by guards shouting… “Lie down on the floor…quick…” Commandos armed with guns stormed the sprawling US Consulate campus. I didn’t understand anything. Suddenly a strong arm from behind held my head and pushed gently down. I turned back to see a six foot tall security guard asking me to lie down in a hush voice. Someone next to me told, “Looks like some terrorist attack…” I looked at him with wide open eyes, he was shivering. There was one old couple, who was not able to lie down on the floor because of their age. One security guard came in swiftly and took them away… all in a flash… I had no clue what is happening… as time passed, my anxiety and fear exponentially increased, fueled by the repetitive pattern & shrill frequency of the emergency alarm and odd whispering… I could hear me breathing fast… The fear of uncertainty pumped in… “Oh my god… I longed for this day, to fulfill my dream of US trip, now looks like it is end of all…” I wanted to come out and was in the verge of breaking into tears, I wanted to see my mom…. There is no way I can talk to her also… Sandy has asked me not to carry the mobile phone to consulate as it will not be allowed inside the consulate campus. Some heavy boots with armory ran past me… When I looked around, almost everyone was in same state as mine. There were people who already stated sobbing, some started chanting prayers, and some started crawling towards the main gate. Amongst all this, there was one kid, who was asked to lie down by her parents, giggling & enjoying, sharing the floor with her parents and 20 to 30 other people. Suddenly the guy who told me, it could be terrorist attack, jumped up and started running towards the main gate only to figure out the iron door is locked from outside. And one guard, moved in and kept him down on the floor in no time, without hurting him. Sensing the tense situation, the guard next to me shouted, “Please be calm… with us, you all are safe. Please trust us”. Anxious moments ticked slowly. Even though it scared the child out of me, I struck with the instructions and remained in the ground but to realize, it is only myself, the little girl and her parents who are still on the ground, the rest, few in crawling position, few sitting on their legs, few sitting with their legs spread and leaning against the pillars and some hushed discussions also kicked in beyond repeated requests by guards to keep quiet. It had been an hour; the fear has now slowly given way to anxiety. For the whole duration, we never heard a single gunshot or a blast. I asked the guard next to me what is happening. He looked at me and walked forward to take his position there. Suddenly the annoying sound of emergency alarm stopped. A senior official walked and announced, “We regret the inconvenience caused and thank you all for the kind corporation with the security drill”. I was furious and I believe almost every other visa aspirant would have been also but kept quiet as our bad thoughts have now given way to original American dreams.
After verification and biometrics, I was asked to go to another neighboring building for the VISA interview. My new blue shirt and black trousers have patches of brown, the dirt from the ground creamed with sweat. There were two people in counter#6 and I was asked to join the line. When waiting for my interview, I can hear other aspirants being badgered. The guy in front of me spoke English with a thick Tamil accent. The officer interviewing him kept on saying “I can’t understand you. Speak slowly and clearly”. She finally did deny him his visa, I am not sure for what reason. The officer has handed over his passport and I saw him walking out dejected. I could sense the pain he was going through on crash landing of dreams… I was quite apprehensive about the interview as I had heard quite a lot of stories about the randomness of the visa interviewers in rejecting the visas and now I have seen it in front of my eyes there were butterflies fluttering in my stomach… I prayed my heart out…. The officer waved her hand at me… I moved in…. Stern but good looking officer… She was scribbling something…“Good Morning…” I wished… I was sweating profusely… She lifted her face… that sparkling eyes, clinked “Good Morning…” Stern face… “how long are you are with your current organization?”. I was prepared for this question, but the answer was not coming, in fact my mind is in a dilemma, whether to tell the experience in months or years….Usually, I refer my experience in years but remembered reading somewhere, it is good to tell experience in months so as to give an exact figure and a professional touch. I told, “28 years… no… 28 months”. She looked up, fixed stare with lips pressed tightly together gave way to wide open eyes, raised eyebrows and burst into laughter…”From birth you are working there, anha…”. I felt like my American dreams are coming down like a playing card castle. She kept screening my passport, lifted he face and probed with a smile “How do I say your first name?” I said, “ramu”. “raAmu..?” she quipped. “Yeah…”. “Whatever you say”, I said in my mind. Next question was little unexpected, “Why do you have such a big name? Your last name has so many parts”. I stumbled, unprepared question. In passport my name is “RAMU MADHUSOODAN PILLAI RADHA KUMARI”. “Actually, my name is not that big, it’s just ramu. Rest is all my initials expanded. My full name is Ramu M R and the M represents my father’s name and R my mother’s name. Passport application warrants for expansion of initials”. “Wow, that’s cute..!” she exclaimed… “CUTE…” I didn’t like that adjective. However I maintained my smile and tried to appear cool as a cucumber… “Why you don’t have a family name, most people have…” Again an unprepared question, “Am I giving a visa interview?”, I asked myself. “My dad and Mom had a love marriage, which didn’t go well with their families so they didn’t inherit anything from their respective families and we kids didn’t inherit their family names”. “Interesting… Are you married?” I was taken aback… stumped…. “excuse me…” that came out of my mouth unknowingly. She repeated with a pause between each words, “ARE YOU MARRIED?”. Amused I said, “No”. “How long you are going to be in US”. I replied, “3 months”. “Well…. what are you going to do in US, while you are there…?” I explained her, my work profile and involved activities for which I was travelling. “So other than work, what are you going to do while being in California?” I said, “Visit… Disney land… & Hollywood…”. She looked up, looked right at my eyes…smiled… She pointed her finger towards the biometric machine and said “your left index finger”, as an obedient ward, I did. “Now the right index finger”… “Thank you, you will get your passport in 3-4 days by courier. Have a nice trip and enjoy your stay at United States of America… anha… by the way Las Vegas is also a good place to visit near California”. I thanked her “Appreciate that & Thank you…”.
By the end of a day which showcased see-saw of emotions, I was happy for myself. The day which featured the dreadful moment frilled with emergency alarms finally gave way to an intertwining combination of achievement and happiness. We all start with a wish, nourish it by grabbing the opportunities as dreams of our own and nurture it during sleep and waking with our efforts in pursuit of happiness. And fulfillment of it sometimes needs bit of luck as well. And lady Luck favored me that day for me to take my American dreams to Elaboration phase.