If you love someone, you say it, right then, out loud. Otherwise, the moment just passes you by


 

“You are the best Dad in the world”, my first son hugged me and told. I hugged him back and smiled at him, he was so happy. He was holding his Wimpy Kid new series book against his chest with one hand and McDonald’s meal packet in his other hand. 🙂 I was proud, felt really good for creating a situation to let his heart out. However suddenly I realized, till now, I have never told my Mom and Dad directly that I even love them, leave alone telling them, they are the best in the world.

My childhood and teenage are of the typical struggle of a lower middle class boy, trying meet each ends up, running from pole to post, each of us in the family had definite roles to play in each and every day and all of us was busy in it and had never got a chance to express ourselves or rather we pretended to be busy. I was just wondering how many times I have told my wife, mother of my 2 children, that I love her.

I looked at my wife who just got hold of our second child, who was running around in the mall. She was panting, I put my arms around her, held her towards me and kissed her forehead.  She looked at me with surprised eyes, I smiled back. I saw a special twinkle in her eyes… she put her arms around my waist and we started walking towards my Mom, who was shopping for a dress for my wife, they both sank into that special world of ladies.

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While waiting with kids for them to finish the shopping, I picked up the phone and called Dad

Dad : Hello

Me: It’s me

Dad: I know…, what is so special?? [His usual rude voice, our conversions are usually on monotone 🙂 )

Me: Nothing, thought just call you and wish Merry Christmas.

Dad: ……silence

Me: How are you? How’s your health?

Dad: As usual, challenges of old age, that’s all….. (I could sense his tone changing)

Me: You are planning to come this side soon?

Dad: It will be cold there now, right? I will come by March.

Me: Silence…

Dad: Mom told, you were not keeping well last week, what happened?

Me: Nothing… Old age catching up….

We both cracked into a laughter

Dad: How are kids? (More relaxed tone)

Me: Will give it to them….

Handed over the phone to first one… there was a healthy conversation about school, studies and books between them, and my kid ended the conversation with “Love you Grand dad, come soon…” and started helping second one with the phone.

I wish and hope, he keep letting his heart out through out his life. It is always great to know that someone loves you and it is amazing to hear it from the person, you love.

That night, at home, kids were fighting to sleep in their Mom’s lap. She made both of them lay down in each of her lap. I got up, walked towards my mom, who was sitting in sofa and watching TV, laid down in the sofa with my head in her lap, her fingers started running through my hair and I felt like the same old small kid, two droplets started rolling down my cheeks…

 

Flowchart


As days and months pass-by, kids are growing faster than you even imagine. My Eight-year-old started demonstrating more highly-developed thinking skills as well as the ability to solve problems with creative strategies 🙂 As most third grader, he combine skills and strategies to read fluently with meaning and purpose, more over apply comprehension and vocabulary strategies to a wider variety of words and is better able to check on and improve their comprehension as needed.

It was the assessment week, and it was the day before EVS assessment.
His mom asked him, “What is that you need to revise”
He said, “Digestive system” and we went to him room for studying.

Wifey is a member of a whatsup group of all the moms of his class students. During assessment week, this group traffic is at the peak. Confirming of topics, sharing of notes as photos, sharing of text book pages, concerns of not been able to revise, status of each student on where do they stand with respect to the preparation etc will be choking the network.

That day, one of the moms was sharing the notes with another mom, whose ward didn’t bring the notebook back home but left in his cubby (cupboard). My wife was reading her whatsup messages and suddenly busted into a laughter. The mobile phone was handed over to me and was asked to look at one of the pages shared. bottom of the page read “Draw a flow chart to show the journey of your breakfast from your mouth to toilet”.

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We both were laughing, my kid came walking in, asked, “What happened, why you guys are laughing?”
I asked him, “Did you draw the flow chart of breakfast from mouth to toilet”.
He smiled and replied, “There are three ways,  1. As per text book, 2. Eat your breakfast and vomit in the toilet, 3. Take the breakfast in the mouth and go to toilet and spit , easier is the third one”.
We both stopped laughing, looked at our kido for a while with surprised eyes. His naughty eyes twinkled and smile surfaced on his lips and we all started laughing our lung out.

The Influence


My boys are growing fast; first one is going to be 8 years this May and second one has already past 2 year milestone 6 months back.

The 8 year old is in his transition from innocent childhood to adventurous teenage. We could see lots of innocence, naughtiness, sweet manipulations, good and bad influences from whatever he sees along this phase. Studies say until 11 – 12 years till they reach teenage, they in the process of learning how to relate to their friends, adjust to social rules, and evolve from free play to more elaborately structured interactions and expectations. One component of social and emotional growth in 8- to 10-year olds is their desire for increased independence from parents and siblings. During this journey to find the means to appropriately individuate, they can, at times, seem stubborn or defiant. They will be more and more negotiating for what they want or arguing their point of view, at home and with friends, applying their more highly developed thinking skills, advanced language abilities, and increased concentration skills.

Recently there was an incident which exactly reflects the new trait of him, applying the imbibed influences in the general talks.

One day after bath, he had changed his clothes (all by himself) and walked into the living room, where we all were sitting and talking. My wife noticed, he was wearing his T-shirt the other way.

She told him, Popsy… you are wearing the T-shirt other way around

He looked at the T-shirt realized the mistake but reluctant to give in, smiled at her and said… yes, mom… but now back is the new front….

Clueless, we both looked at him, and asked to wear his T-shirt properly …

As he was putting his t-shirt properly, the advertisement on sky bags back pack flashed on the TV screen…

Tit for Tat


My elder boy is now 7 years, growing fast. He is becoming much more adept at taking care of himself, not only in those day-to-day routines such as bathing, getting dressed, eating by himself (at times reheating the food and eating) but expressing preferences for certain activities or types of books or foods, tying his shoe laces, doing his homework himself etc.

He is now a avid reader and recently into a book series called Diary of a Wimpy kid, glued to it most times. He has already finished most of it. I have seen, A Novel of Cartoons, The Movie Diary, The Ugly Truth, The Last Straw, Cabin Fever, Dog Days, The Long Haul…. of Wimpy series in his list of completed books and the the list goes on…

His loyalty to cartoon characters have changed over years from Dora and Diego to Micky Mouse, Thomas the Tank Engine, Doraemon to now to Pokemon. Ash Ketchum and Pikachu are his heroes now.

Not yet adolescent and no longer a young child a 7-year-old’s behavior and routines is been shaped by constantly balancing independence with reliance. His insistence and justification on certain things in the initial days was little difficult for us for being typical Indian parents.

He has this habit of taking bath and coming to living room in front of the TV without slipping into his dress. My wife keeps reminding him that it is a bad manner not to dress properly before coming to social/family space and lectures on personal and private spaces and honoring them, but more often he forgets in the urge to witness a pokemon challenge.

One day, my sister and her family was there at home and he did the same. My wife took the opportunity to bully him and make him feel ashamed so that he takes her tips seriously

Look at the 7 year old boy, Don’t you feel shy to come in front of people like this?

Like a typical 7 year old, he is certainly better tolerant going with the flow or unexpected situations than what was he one year back, looked at her and asked

You were fine to watch PK wearing nothing and seeing him, even though he was bigger than me, but not me?, why… why… whyy….?

    He was quoting a movie, PK, we watched the day before. The introduction screen of the title character of the movie is similar to that of Arnold Schwarzenegger in The Terminator

My wife had no answer and then there was a silence for a while, then we all laughed together however later he had a timeout session followed by the tip…

Films are mostly larger than life and what ever you see in movies cannot be replicated or copied in our life. Movie is an entertainment just like Pokemon, we cannot do what ever Ash Ketchum or Pikachu doing in the series the real life.

Good thing is, It worked!!!

Moments of Laziness….


Let me first accept the fact that, of late, I am becoming too lazy…

I am not sure, age is catching up or new one on the block and work is keeping me too busy…. I am feeling, I am missing my own personal time with myself. I am not reading anything new….. I am not scribbling down my thoughts…. I am sleeping late and missing my early mornings….

And last weekend, in fact my wife helped me to have sometime for me myself…, she went for her social circle with both the kids. I was browsing… going through some of the photos, I have clicked recently…, I found few photos, that’s worth sharing… hope you will enjoy, my saga with light and shade… I couldn’t believe, my so-called laziness captured such wonderful innocent moments…. Special thanks to all the models… my nephew, my nieces and my naughty lil ones….

Chu... Chu... train....

Chu… Chu… train….

I am Grumpy...

I am Grumpy…

Ringa Ringa Roses...

Ringa Ringa Roses…

Walking towards the horizon

Walking towards the horizon

Tried... but energy is still oozing in the eyes....

Tried… but energy is still oozing in the eyes….

Lost in Thoughts...

Lost in Thoughts…

N'joy the splash...

N’joy the splash…

Sea shell collectors

Sea shell collectors

I am not playing....

I am not playing….

Sand and Water

Sand and Water

Cutie...

Cutie…

Peak a boo...

Peak a boo…

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Victory….

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Too many choices to pick….

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The Cute Gaint…

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Ok… What next,….?

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Why yellow, blue, orange, violet balls are all round…?

Break…


It’s been almost an year and a half…, I have been here. It was a long winding break, full of action.

Major happenings being

  • Personally I am blessed with my second child.
  • Professionally, I have moved on from the organization, I was associated for more than 8 years and matured professionally to a start-up where I am busy establishing self.

I am hoping this post to be the ice breaker…

I have been too busy and lazy at home to pen down my thoughts… Not that I am not penning down, my physical excercise also have come down… gained around 4 kgs… The plan is to burn that extra fluff and converse with you my thoughts and views.

For the time being, please find below few snaps of the new one….

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Curious bro…

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Here I am

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Started Posing for Dad’s camera…

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Brotherly love – Seeing them, sometimes I feel, I have not done enough justice of being a big bro….to my siblings….

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Click… Is this okay…?

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Lift me up…

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Boyz… My wife says… I have 3 kids… all boys together…

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Bed time play…

Getting Bigger!!


My maternal grand father passed away three months back. We went to my maternal ancestral home to pay tributes and the rituals. When we reached there, Grandpa’s body was kept with head facing south in the home entryway on the floor. A lamp was kept lit near his head and incense sticks were burning. A strip of cloth was tied under the chin and over the top of the head. The thumbs were tied together, as are the big toes. Someone was reciting Ramayana in a feeble voice and people were talking in hushed voice. From one of the rooms inside, we could hear some controlled sobbing as well.

As we were paying tributes to my grand father, my kid switched on to his inquisitive mode.

SON: Dad, why is great grandpa lying down like this? Is it fancy dress?

I looked around, I saw some raised grey eyebrows and some youthful lips hiding a smile. I signaled him to keep quiet. He looked at me, made up an angry face and walked out.  I paid homage to grandpa, spend some time with grandma and came out looking for him. He was sitting next to my cousin’s kid and playing. I went near him, but he ignored me by forcefully turning his face to the other side and making an angry sound of ‘Anhh…’. I also felt not disturbing him as he has found some activity to settle down with. Late in the afternoon, people were pouring in to catch a last glimpse of my grandpa, who was a prominent figure in that locality and I was engaging those people. While I was talking to one of the visitors, my son came to me

SON: Dad, I want to talk to you.

ME: Yeah, sure…

I turned to the person, I was talking and introduced my son. He bent forward, held my kid’s chin and asked him

UNCLE: Hello…. how are you…?

SON: I am good, but I need to talk to my dad, now…

UNCLE: (Smiling….) Sure… (Touched his head….)

My kid forcefully removed his hand, held my hand and pulled.

SON: Come…..

I apologized to the person whom I was talking and promised that will come back soon to resume the conversation and took my kid outside the premises.

SON: Why didn’t you tell me, why great grandpa is laying down like that…?

ME: (Smiled…) We are not supposed to speak loud there, that is why… You might have noticed people whispering there…

SON: (Pretending anger… grumpy face..) hmm… why…?

ME: Grandpa has passed away… he will be now going to heaven, the god’s home…. and will become as a star in the sky… and will never come back to earth… because of which everybody is sad…

SON: Is he dead….?

ME: (Surprised…) Yes…

SON: How did he die…?

ME: He was old and as one grows very old, the body will become weaker and weaker and will be more prone to diseases and finally die.

SON: (with eyes brimmed with innocence) Will I die…?

ME: (Stunned…) (Lifted him up, gave him a kiss) Yeah… everyone will die as they grow old… But you have lots and lots of time and years and years to go before you become old to die…

SON: Ok, let us go in, I want to do su.. su… … (want to pass urine)

We spend a week there and were back. I always want time to get back into the grove, when I am back home after being away  for sometime… especially with my things…. it’s locations… it’s availability… :)…. too cranky…. right…? …. yeah… I am…. sometimes more than my child… As things were falling in place,  all of a sudden, one day, my kid was refusing to have food and my wife repeated our regular punch line

WIFE: You want to be as big as dad, right…? have food… (He always wanted grow bigger… and wanted to be tall and strong )

SON: No… I don’t want to grow bigger…

WIFE: (surprised and taken back…regular ploy failed… since it was working well… there was no plan B as well…) Why…?

SON: (Started crying….) If I grow bigger like dad, dad will be as old as grandma… and grandma will die…. I don’t want grandma to die…

There were no words between me, wife and my mom…. but I saw tears rolling down my mom’s eyes and my kid running towards her….

Holidays redefined….


I am enjoying a break from work now. In my 15 years of career, my third such break. For me, it is like a trance state between jobs. After being associated with an organization for long, you need a break to catch up on what you un-learned and sharpen your learning. Basically it is a lazy assignment with no time, people or budgetary constraints.

For me, this time, it was an overdose of laziness. I was eating like a pig, sleeping like a hibernating bear, reading like a snail (too slow for my liking), browsing like a monkey (jumping from one site to other in no particular order), watching movies from couch like a hawk (with a critics mind). However I am spending lots and lots of time with my kid.

My boy and myself, love each other’s company. He asks lots of questions, and I love answering them. Some of his questions are very intrusive, which needs to be answered by molding it to his age, some will be stupid for my age, but I consider them also seriously assuming it is not stupid for his age. He asks quite a few genuine questions which you may not have proper answers as well. However I manage, I try my best to make him feel comfortable with the answers and I am not misleading him. Last day, I had an interesting talk with him, bubbling with innocence…. I thought, it is worth sharing….

SON: Hey, Dad…

ME: Yes, popseeeeee….

SON: Shall I ask you something…

ME: Yeah, sure…. always….

SON: Mom & you go office, right?

ME: Yes…

SON: And I go school…

ME: Correct…

SON: But grandma doesn’t go school or office, why?

ME: Yeah. Grandma went to school, when she was a kid like you and worked when she was young. Now she is getting older, she spends time at home and likes to spend lots and lots of time with her grandson, that’s you!!

SON: She is not going school or office, because she is getting older…?

ME: (What….? a small pause…….)Yeah…., but not only that…, she wants to spend time with you also…

SON: (Thinks…. and long pause….) Are you getting old…?

ME (Arched eyebrows) : Yeah… everyone gets old… Dad gets old…, mom gets old… you gets old… grandma gets old… with every birthday of ours, we all are getting old….

SON: No…. not that… are you so old for not to go to office….?

ME: ……………………………………………… (bursts into laughter….)

SON: why are you laughing…? (Stern look….) Are you as old as grandma, now….?

ME: No, dear… I will go office soon…. I am taking a break now…. After some days I will go office… it is like your long holidays at school….

SON: ……………(Thinking….) so you will go to new office after holidays….? Just like I go to new class after long holidays…?

ME: Correct, I will go to new office after holidays….. (Sigh of relief….)

SON: When will Mom have holidays….?

ME: hmmm…. (Unexpected question…. Thinking….)

SON: Mom’s office doesn’t have holidays?

ME: Well…., we will ask this question to Mom. But why you want Mom to have holidays….?

SON: Well, then I will get more time with Mom, just like I have with you now…

ME: ….Hmm….. I will talk to Mom… by the way, just now only we all had a vacation together…. right? You have spent lots of time with Dad and Mom… right…?

SON: Hmmm…… (index finger on cheeks… tilted head…..)…. But you were there… right….? ….. Will she get holidays, when you go office….?

ME: (SMILES…..) Yeah… she will….

SON: but you go office…. Okay…. Only Mom will have holidays….

ME: Sure…. (Trying to control laughter…..)

SON: Okay, let us watch…. CARS 2….. (An animation movie….)

ME: Okay…. but I watched it 3 times now…. 2 times today itself…..

SON: I watched so many times…. I want to watch it again…. put it on…..

ME: okay….. here you go….

Hey…, Lion Heart, Livestrong


The news of one of my favorite cricketer, Yuvraj Singh, been diagnosed with Testicular cancer came to me as a shock. The most athletic player in the Premier Cricket club of India, suffering from cancer…? Give me a break… I was not convinced…. It took few days for me to sink into reality. Yuvi shot up to his prime form in recent Cricket world cup and was the man of the series. Now he is a man, who is seriously ill…!!!, irony, all in a blink of eye. Later came the comparisons between his condition and that of  Lance Armstrong, the man who fought similar cancer and came out strong, few years back.

Yuvi is in earlier stage (stage1) than that of Lance (stage3), when he started Chemotherapy. Unlike Yuvi, along with lungs, Lance had cancerous cells in his brain as well. Also reports tell, Lance had to undergo multiple surgeries to remove his diseased testicle and cancerous cells from his brain and Yuvi doesn’t need a surgery.

Lance prepared himself with enough knowledge of drugs and treatments along with preparing mentally and financially. Lance chose to avoid bleomycin during chemotherapy as he understood during his medical research that there is a lung toxicity associated with the drug bleomycin. Along with accumulating immense medical knowledge about his condition, the physical conditioning, support systems and competitive spirit of Lance was a deciding factor in him coming back strongly and winning Tour de France, just 3 years after his diagnosis. He still live strong, a living example of a fighter not a survivor.

Yuvi recently tweeted, “Reading Lance Armstrong’s book, it’s not about the bike! I’m sure it will motivate me and pull me through this time! Livestrong Yuvstrong!

Yeah, dude… we are sure, you will be through this rough times, you can do it, you have proven your balls multiple times in the field, now it’s time to grab them to save yourself… you can do it… no… you will do it….We all pray for your fast recovery and good health. We all miss you in action, hey… lion heart…, we see you in the field this May, till then brace yourself and livestrong.

The crooked twist in the tale…


When I started putting down my thoughts and experiences, I never anticipated getting directions with topics to write. I get requests to write on various topics and if I can mix the reality with appropriate mix of fiction and have enough details, I usually write about it. Recently, one of my friends wrote to me, “Write about our ponmudi trip, if you remember that“. A request/challenge from my closest friend circle.

The trip to Ponmudi happened around 10-15 years back, around Christmas time, when me and my neighborhood friends, who were in early twenties, all willing to ride wild horses, took a motor bike ride to a small hill station around 60 km (1 km = 0.6 miles) from our place. Only thing, I remember very clearly is the anticlimax of the trip. I remember vaguely the serpentine route, choked bikes, chilly, breezy and drizzling climate, the water fall on the way, the hill surrounded by clouds all around at the pinnacle, greenery everywhere and we having a blast there with a very little memory on details.

Situated en route to the Ponmudi is a small village named Kallar which got its name from the river Kallar, which flows through the region. Kallu means ‘stone’ and Aru means ‘river’ and the river literally represents its name in this area, the frothing water flows in between abundance of attractive, round-shaped boulders and pebbles. We were 6 people in 3 bikes and on the way back to our place from Ponmudi, we decided to have a halt at Kallar and have a dip in the crystal clear waters of Kallar river to cool off. We found a place dotted with some rapids and a small pool of “flowing” water for our fun activity. It was little off from road, but clean and looked like a bathing place only.

Two of our friends opted out entering the water as they have some other appointment early next day and had to be at home early that night. They spend some time at shore splashing water and then left. We four, were in water, splashing, diving, swimming and were having fun with the beautiful and loquacious Kallar. All of a sudden, with a face expression of Kallar just proposed him, Anand yelled in full throttle,

HOLY S*%T,  man…., my bike keys are with Narayanan…

Long pause…., all faces frozen at Anand’s. He hit his head with his right palm

I am not sure, he kept it along with our clothes, let me check…

He jumped out of the water and searched the place where our clothes were kept, only to realize that his bike keys are with Narayanan, who had already left. The fun-filled faces suddenly switched to confusion and awe. Anand’s bike was unlocked, but to start the bike, we need keys. In those days, in India, mobile phones were just becoming popular. In the entire group, only two had phones and both of them are in the group that stayed back. It was decided, me and Sankar will wait and guard the unlocked bike while Kumar and Anand will follow Narayanan & Raja to get back the keys. They had to catch them as soon as possible. If Narayanan & Raja manage to reach their home, before Kumar & Anand can collect the keys, they will end up driving around 100 kms to and fro, just to get the keys back. Also we were hoping, Narayanan & Raja doesn’t change their plans in between but go directly to their respective homes.

I was relieved, that I don’t have to drive, but felt sorry for Anand & Kumar. They set off, myself and Sankar started rewinding the fun, we had that day, so as release the tension. As we were indulged in talks, darkness stated setting in. Now there is very little light in the area, where are in. The only source of light was the half-moon up the sky and flashing lights of vehicles passing by. The sound effects around us stated changing, the predominant sweet chatter of Kallar gave way to little frightening sound of  lady night and her friends. As time passed by, the cricket trilling, owls hooting,  chorus of Bullfrogs and Green Tree frogs intensified. Even sound of Kallar changed, she was little rough then, looked like it was raining, up there in the hills.  It sounded as if, the mother nature was asking us to leave the place. We looked at each other, Sankar took his cell phone out to check the status with Kumar and Anand but to realize it is out of charge.

“Let us go and find a phone booth (PCO) and make a call to them and come“, he told.

I reminded him about the bike, first we thought we will leave the bike and go, however since the bike’s handle was unlocked, I decided to stay back to guard the bike. I sat on the bike with center stand on, lighted a cigarette and started singing loud to drive away my fear induced by the environment and the realization of being alone. Time was ticking slower than ever, I threw my cigarette butt in the darkness. All of a sudden there was a flurry of abusive tantrum from behind. I looked back, I didn’t see anyone there but only “A” grade abuses from darkness, that will be bleeped out by any censor board. Then in the light that was flashed by a passing vehicle in the main road, I  saw a dark, bald, lean man with a big moustache, whose head looked little bigger for his body size, with a stick in his hand. He was struggling to stand in his legs, at times he uses the stick in his hand to gain his balance. That drunk guy’s appearance from darkness, the new abusive tutorial and the prevailing background score pushed me to new heights of angst. I looked eagerly to the darkness in the direction Sankar went. The drunkard was shouting something, I was not paying attention to him as I never knew that person and I never like taking to strangers, especially when they are not in their senses.

Can’t you hear…? Are you deaf…?

That was from close range, I turned back. He was showering me with more abusive words and waving the stick in the air. That sight, made me jump off the bike and move to a safer distance. However the act of waving the stick made him fall backwards. For a moment, I worried whether he was hurt, but just like a phoenix, he got up, with the help of stick in his hand. He moved towards me swaying, adjusted his lungi, spit out sputum with aversion and started interrogating me

What the hell are you doing here…? you… M%^&# F&*(%$*“.

I shrugged, moved to a safer distance, out of reach for him and his stick and replied

waiting for my friend...”

He moved forward raising his stick, but that action of him made him take two steps backward and unbalanced him again. He managed to gain his equilibrium with the help of the stick in his hand.

So you are the one, who visits my wife, when I am not there…? ^&%$#… I have been waiting for months… %^*# It’s only now, I was able to catch you, red-handed.. You M%^&# F&*(%$*“.

I was stunned, looked at him in disbelief… “What… the F*&K?”.

He persisted, “Aren’t you…? I am going to kill you and her… you bloody &*^%“.

All of sudden, there was shouting, crying, yelling, cursing…. I don’t remember what and all, but everything added to my confusion and emerged two more people from darkness, both females. One a middle-aged, well-built woman and a girl in her teens.

The woman was cursing that man

This man will bring shame to the family and will not allow to live in peace….

doesn’t even remember have a girl to get married….

keep your mouth shut and come inside the home…

Oh… God… how many people die in a day in so many ways… why you are leaving this guy out…?

The girl was crying, the discomfort of embarrassment was evident in her face in the dim light available. “Come on, dad...” the girl held that guy’s hand pulled him back. He fell on the ground. He started abusing me, that girl and women. From his words, I understood, that lady is his wife and the girl, his kid. The women lifted that man with the same ease as the girl lifted that man’s stick.

I was little relieved to see the way situation has turned around, all of a sudden from no where help has arrived. The women looked at me and apologized, “Sorry, son… He is like this only… when drunk… he suspects, anyone who pass by as my lover and quarrels with them…“. I managed to bring a smile in my face and acknowledged her apology.

Beyond all this turmoil, she surprised me with an advice, “Son, don’t stay here in this dark, there are lots of crawling creatures in this area… “

“By the way, why are you standing here, doesn’t look like you are from this area“. She raised her eyebrows.

I explained her the story of bike without key. She didn’t look convinced but told me

It is not safe to stay here at this time, go home… if needed, put your bike at our home and come back tomorrow and take it“.

No thanks madam, the incident which happened minutes before will never ever make me do that even in the worst possible scenario also“, I said in my mind.

But smiled and declined that offer by saying, “It’s okay, my friends are on the way“.

They carried the resisting man to the darkness, however I could hear him shouting at that lady, which gradually fainted away.

I also didn’t want to stay there for long, it was pitch dark, the unexpected event and the advice of the lady intensified my fear. I decided to move to a place, where there is some light. I took the bike off the center stand and started pushing towards the main road to see Sankar returning. He informed, Kumar and Anand has to go all the way to Narayanan’s home to pick up the keys and they will be with us anytime. We both pushed the bike to the side of the main road where there was street light. As I was explaining my bad experience, Kumar and Anand joined us. Waiting no longer, we all started back, looking forward to the scolding that we would be getting at home for being this late without notice.